A young man was overheard asking “what are old people good for anyhow?” Bristling, this writer’s first thought was “how old is old? Surely not my age!” Alas, old has many definitions. According to an AI Overview (yup, the new source of information, AI, or Artificial Intelligence), there are three categories.
Young-Old (65-74 years): This group often resembles middle-aged adults. Many are still working, married, maintain good health, and lead active, engaged lives.
Middle-Old (75-84 years): Individuals in this stage begin to experience more significant health issues and face challenges with daily activities.
Old-Old (85+ years): This is the most advanced stage of old age, characterized by increased frailty, a higher need for long-term care, and greater physical and cognitive decline.
The Determination in Getting Old
But what virtues do older people hold? Well, they are not sissies! Every morning is a wake-up to bodies having new demands and unique adaptations. Older citizens execute complex skills to maintain balance, coordination, and prolonged strength. Most readers will agree that staying upright is a significant accomplishment, and those who do so should be bestowed a medal. William H. Thomas, author of The Hidden Powers of Age endorses other virtues of advanced age, as follows:
- Older people are less likely to experience persistent negative emotional states. Happiness is found in little events… music, friends, a plethora of memories.
- Older people are better at regulating emotional states. Positive thoughts improve with age. After all, they have pretty much “been there, done that.”
- Age presents a greater complexity of emotional experience, and older people have developed the skills to categorize what is essential and what is not. Thinking outside the box is easily performed.
- Older people find “silver linings” much quicker than younger cohorts. Instead of “have to” they choose “get to.” Notice the positive difference.
- Advancing age brings about a shift in values. Materialism changes with less pressure to have the latest technology or the most friends. An awareness of possessions becoming ensnaring helps free older people. What is important is important, and what is not doesn’t matter.
Aging also brings perspective. With decades of lived experience, older adults carry a wealth of knowledge, resilience, and adaptability that younger generations often draw upon. They remind us that life is not just about speed or productivity, but about purpose, connection, and meaning. Their stories, humor, and wisdom enrich families and communities in ways no algorithm or quick fix ever could.
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