A New Year of Quiet Hope and Renewed Resolve
2025 was recently written into history (in case you missed it). A naïve soul, 2026, is now here and full of possibilities. There was no entrance in a luxury vehicle, nor was 20226 dripping jewels (or cryptocurrency), but it was quietly dressed in hope and noble prospects. Many of those who believe in a fresh start have consistently made New Year Resolutions, and are resolute… this will be the year resolutions will be fulfilled. Still, experience gently reminds us that optimism alone is rarely enough to carry intentions from January into the months that follow.
According to the Forbes Health Survey, New Year’s resolutions made by Seniors typically last two to four months before goal-setters give up. Just under one in 10 (8%) say their resolutions have lasted a month, 21.9% report two months, 22.2% report three months, and 13.1% say their resolutions remain over four months.
What is the primary reason for discarding a new goal? According to Forbes's same survey, consciousness (awareness of self) is needed to shift before behavior changes. Change at any age is difficult. Habits are ingrained; stability is important: cognitive and physical conditions alter.
Between setting intentions and seeing them through, there is often a quiet space where reflection either takes root or fades away. Goals are frequently abandoned not because they lack value, but because the inner shifts required to support them feel uncomfortable or unfamiliar. Awareness asks us to notice patterns we have relied on for years, sometimes decades. That kind of honesty can be challenging, especially as routines become sources of security over time. Yet awareness does not have to be heavy or discouraging. It can be approached with patience, curiosity, and even kindness. When change is framed as an exploration rather than a demand, it becomes more approachable and far less intimidating.
Bridge to Better Living believes in Quality of Life and would like to present a lighter view of the aging process in this article. Life is better when we are able to laugh at ourselves. Chuckle along with Bridge to Better Living in an interesting perspective below:
Old Folks are worth a fortune: Silver in their hair, gold in their teeth, and unfortunately (blush) gas in their stomachs. Most Seniors entertain several gentlemen each day:
- Will Power gets them out of bed.
- Charley Horse, always arriving uninvited, fills a large amount of time and demands attention.
- Arthur Ritis, when appearing, spends most of the day, usually travelling to several joints.
- Ben Gay, after others have “left,” helps numerous Seniors fall into bed.
Preachers constantly call and remind older folks to think about the “hereafter.” This is okay, as no matter where one is, the parlor, kitchen or basement, most do find themselves asking “Now, what am I after?”
… written by an unknown author, undoubtedly a Senior
Life is good, and Bridge to Better Living is devoted to improving each of its clients’ lives. Age truly is a number, as no two people are alike. Seniors, families, and loved ones diversify in social, physical, medical, and financial situations. Consultants embrace each client’s story and help write successful outcomes. Gone With the Wind took over ten years to write, and readers loved the novel… as a client of Bridge to Better Living, you have an opportunity to discover solutions to unasked questions about a safe, enjoyable, and, yes… an enviable Quality of Life. If you make only one New Year’s Resolution this year, make a promise to contact Bridge to Better Living today. Happy New Year to everyone.